• Honesty

Never keep secrets from your loved one! They always have a way of revealing themselves and may destroy your relationship. It does not matter how small or unimportant your secret may seem to you, they need to know about anything that affects you both.

 

 

• Understanding

Make relationship decisions together. Don’t assume your partner will be happy if you make certain decisions alone. Your actions could cause a fight: get your partner’s approval before making any resolutions concerning both of you.

                                       

• Communication

What would a relationship be without communication? Nothing! Yes… zilch. Communication is the key to everything and always make sure your partner knows how you are feeling. Share daily experiences just to keep channels open.

 

• Commitment

It’s easy to say you are in a committed relationship when things are going well, but you should be able to say the same when things aren’t that good. That’s when a relationship is being tested: some partners give up when they reach the first hurdle without even finishing the race. However, if you are not willing to push yourself or fight to get over the next few hurdles, then maybe winning isn’t even your plan.

 

• Time

Always make time for each other. Take your partner out on a treat. Not spending enough time together could lead to drift and the relationship may suffer. Do things that you both enjoy and create new experiences together.

 

• Triangle

A relationship only consists between two people, not more. If there are more than two people, the ‘ship’ will definitely sink. Do not give people the power by making your relationship too public. Keep your issues discreet and don’t expose them on social networks.

 

• Be yourself

Be yourself in your relationship. Don’t lose your morals just to please your partner. Allow your partner to love you for the person that you are and not the person you trying to be. No-one is perfect and your partner should accept you as you are.

 

• Compromise

Make sure the same amount of time and effort is put into your relationship from both parties. Prioritise properly so you are able to maintain your relationship and other commitments.

 

• Ex factor

Let go of past relationships. There’s absolutely no reason for you to hang on to things that are no longer there. If you continuously make your ex a topic with your current partner, it could make them feel insecure and anxious about your commitment to the relationship. Your ex had an opportunity to love you but failed… move on. Don’t mess up your current relationship with things from the past.

 

Remember: There’s no perfect formula for relationships. Treat your partner the same way you’d want to be treated. Respect is vital.