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Abandon the Knife

By: Tau'hira Dean

The terms ‘female genital cutting’ (FGC), ‘female circumcision’ and ‘female genital mutilation’ (FGM) are all used to describe the cultural practice of the complete or partial removal of the external female genitalia or other injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons.The different terms are used to lessen the harshness of the practice as 'Female genital cutting' will commonly be used because it doesn't sound as harsh as 'mutilation'. Many countries also used the term ‘circumcision’, making reference to the male circumcision. I don't see the point of referring to the same brutal mutilation with a 'softer' word. There is no calmer way to put it. Mutilation is mutilation

Apparently the ‘minor’ form of FGM is when the clitoris is removed while the severe form of FGM is when all external genitalia are removed and the vaginal opening is stitched… only leaving a small hole for urine and menstrual fluid to pass through.

 

Centuries ago, some referred to the cultural practice as ‘circumcision’ to give it a possible link to male circumcision. Using this term lessens the seriousness of the physical and psychological effects it has on women and children and hides the difference between the cutting procedures.

 

There is no age restriction to this mutilation: FGM is performed on infants, girls and women of all ages. However, the ages might differ from country to country. In most cases, FGM happens before a girl reaches puberty. However, it’s strangely done before marriage or during a women’s first pregnancy. It is said that in Egypt, 90% of the girls are mutilated between the ages of 5 and 14. More than 75% of girls in Yemen are mutilated before they reach three weeks of age

 

There are more than 150 million girls and women who have undergone this brutal cultural practice… and many more will. Nobody is thinking about the health of the girls: it’s all about protecting the ‘family name’. So sacrificing your daughter means nothing compared to your family name? These are the challenges women face in countries where laws are made by men.

 

FGM is still practiced in several countries in Central Africa, some parts of the Middle East and Egypt. Less harsh practices take place in Indonesia, Pakistan and India. Even though we don’t often hear of any FGM practices in countries like Australia, New Zealand, Canada or the United States… but they actually do take place - but just in a much harsher manner. No FGM, is not part of any form of religious practices even there are different religious groups that incorporate it into their doctrine. There are no scriptures in the Bible or Quran that condone it.

The health efects FGM has on both women and girls are do not only include long-term physical damage, but psychological and emotional trauma too.

Long-term effects include:

 

  • Difficulties during child birth. 99% of the time, burials are already prepared because of the high probability of the mother or new-born dying.

  • Bladder and urinary infections.

  • Genital cysts.

  • Infertility.

  • Surgery to open up the stitch before sexual intercourse.

There are also many superstitions about FGC:

 

  • The clitoris will continue to grow as a girl gets older and so it must be removed.

  • The external genitalia are unclean and can actually cause the death of an infant during delivery.

  • FGC is often part of a community’s tradition. Most parents who support FGC believe they are protecting their daughter’s future marriage prospects and not hurting her. It is seen by parents as part of a girl’s ‘upbringing’.

How does one even believe in this? No girl’s purity can be judged by her genitalia not being cut away or sewn up. Imagine being classified as a ‘whore’ because you still have your genitalia intact. Even in Israel and Egypt today, when men come forward to marry daughters, the first questions they ask the families is : “Is she a virgin? Can she cook, can she clean?” The light men portray on women is clearly a dim one. Women are seen as property, as something to be owned. In the society we live in today, we are blinded by these practices. Or shall I say many choose to be oblivious about the topic because they can’t face the harsh realities women and girls have to endure in other countries? Women shouldn’t be treated as second-class citizens

 

The World Health Organisation (WHO) has been the foundation for helping young women as a means of amnesty. It is through the WHO that researchers are seeing a slight decrease in FGM in the Middle East and northern African countries. With more awareness, the more effective the campaign against FGM will be. The distraught feeling is something you and I might not have experienced, but look at your younger sister, your niece or your own daughter and imagine her in that position. An unclean surrounding, laying helplessly on the floor with forelimbs held down and that unsterilised tool, usually a knife or sharp piece of stone, cutting away the genitalia. No, we cannot begin to imagine the pain or the agony.

 

Girls only realise they’re different when they have to undergo medical surgery where surgeons are the ones breaking the news that they are very different to the average girl.

 

After watching the Somalian movie the Desert Flower, I felt emotionally connected to the issue. The movie ends with a quote:

“I feel that God made my body perfect the way I was born. Then man robbed me, took away my power, and left me a cripple. My womanhood was stolen. If God had wanted those body parts missing, why did he create them? I just pray that one day no woman will have to experience this pain. It will become a thing of the past. People will say, "Did you hear? Female genital mutilation has been outlawed in Somalia?" Then the next country, and the next and so on until the world is safe for all women. What a happy day that will be, and that's what I'm working toward. In'shallah, if God is willing, it will happen. ” ― Waris Dirie, Desert Flower: The Extraordinary Journey of a Desert Nomad

For more information about female genital cutting, call:

Amnesty International

Phone: 212-807-8400

 

Center for Reproductive Rights

Phone: 917-637-3600

 

Population Reference Bureau

Phone: 800-877-9881

 

UNICEF

Phone: 212-686-5522U.S.

 

Agency for International Development

Phone: 202-712-4810

 

World Health Organization

Phone: 011-41-791-2111.

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